There comes a point when the old tricks stop working the way they used to. You can still push through a long day, get things done, and tell yourself “I’m fine”—close enough to keep moving. But somewhere in midlife, the body starts adding footnotes: a stiff back after sitting too long, a headache that might be dehydration, a bad night’s sleep that turns into three days of brain fog, or knees that negotiate before they cooperate.
One of the first things I noticed getting back into the job search arena was all the new terminology connected to searching for a job. With AI-assisted everything everywhere, I was familiar with a few terms, but as I have interviewed these last few weeks, more terms have come to my attention, adding to my education, confusion, and frustration.
Being in the position of having to look for a job is not fun. The shock of losing a job I thought was stable is still fresh in my mind. All of the thoughts and emotions run through my mind like a speeding bullet. How does it feel at fifty-nine years of age? It sucks.
I don’t care what Y’all say, I still don’t fully trust AI. But learning it at almost 60 has been a whole different experience.
I grew up before computers were everywhere, before the internet took over, before cell phones became pocket computers, and way before tools like ChatGPT started helping people write, research, organize, and build.
Midlife is not one story. This is a simple roll call: what season of life are you in right now?
Not every breakthrough is dramatic. Sometimes one small thing is enough. What’s helping you feel more like yourself lately?
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A few honest lessons from the book launch, one surprise, and one thing I’m still figuring out as I keep building in public.
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